I think life in general is one big transition. Yes, some transitions are quite the doozy (not in a warm-fuzzy kind of way), and others can be quite free-ing.
But if you are a spiritually conscious person, then it's not just about transition, it's also about transformation. You know that life is a journey toward personal growth, and growth requires letting go of the OLD to leap (or in some cases stumble) into the NEW.
An odd thing has happened to me recently. I actually started to DO something that would propel me forward that I have been avoiding for quite some time. And after all, you certainly never see results you want unless you physically TAKE ACTION. (Sorry all you “sit on the sofa and recite positive messages all day long in HOPES of change”.)
Ok, back to the odd thing.... I have been at a loss for words. Yes! I know! Really?
As a soul primary in self-expression energy (a fancy way of saying that I don't' shut up), this is very, very unusual....
...unless, you are worming your way out of your personal kryptonite.
Every superpower comes with a downside. Just think about the Rock from Marvel Comics. You know, the big guy that looks like, well, a very large conglomerate of rocks? When he first “transformed”, he keep crushing everything from furniture and other household goods to the good AND bad guys.
For me, as a divine self-expressionist, my kryptonite is constantly learning more. Taking more classes. Watching more informational videos. But it's really, really hard to OWN my own thoughts when my head is spinning with everyone else's “good ideas”.
Therefore, I have been information fasting. No more classes, no more “learning”. I have also been absent from Facebook groups for over a month. And you know what happened? Radio silence. I got nothin'. NOTHING! No words. Huh. Who would have thought.
Buuuuuut, no matter how awkward it's been, I know I am on the right track. Why? Because in order to transition properly to my next step, I know I need to eliminate the stuff that is getting in my way. And the rambling thoughts and ideas from everyone else was interfering my process.
For you it might look different. Your kryptonite might be isolation, so you might need to jump into all kinds of social activities (despite not really WANTING to) for a bit. Or maybe your roadblock is over-giving so you need to be super selfish and take a break from doing anything for others.
It's not easy, because our comfort zone lies in the status-quo.
So during my “information fast”:
- I did a little rebranding under Soul Wisdom with Lore versus just my name.
- I held a few incredible VIP day experiences with a colleague of mine for professionals who knew that personal trauma was interfering with their business. (A true mind, body, AND soul healing experience!)
- The man and I jumped on an opportunity that opened for us to travel to Dubai and Greece in November.
- And, I have been out and about, networking with people face to face, and looking for speaking opportunities for when my words start flowing again. And they will, but now way more amplified and original which will create even more abundance for me.
How about you? Where are you getting in your own way? If you are ready to make peace with your kryptonite (or you don't even quite know what it is for you) I invite you to hop on the phone with me.